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Lessons From Mom

Spa Gift Baskets: Organic Spa BasketMoms really are what make the world go round. They give us life, love us, and send us out into the world, always ready to be there for us at a moment’s notice. A mother’s job certainly doesn’t end when her child grows up. The job just evolves.

I spent my early childhood trying to emulate my mom and then as a teenager, I was always trying to escape her. Obviously during those tumultuous teenage years, I knew everything and didn’t need to listen to the archaic advice from my mother. Surely my friends were better judges of life than my mom. (I laugh at the thought now) These days, I can look back fondly at the lessons she taught me, spoken and unspoken, when she thought I wasn’t even paying attention.

I can almost hear the unified sigh from all of us who wish we’d given our mother’s more credit for the advice they were trying to freely give. So, what is the best lesson your mom taught you? Post a comment below and share the best advice or most valuable lesson that you learned from your mom and you’ll be entered in GiftTree’s Mother’s Day contest. The Gift Exchange contributors will choose our favorite post and the winner will receive the Organic Spa Basket, for you or for your mom.

Deadline to Enter: Midnight (PST) Wednesday, May 7th. Not the winner this time? GiftTree has many Mother’s Day gifts that are perfect for mom.


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427 Responses to “Lessons From Mom”

  1. Louise Brouillette Says:

    I learned to be more tolerant of others.

  2. My mom taught me to put others first.

  3. Celeste Campbell Says:

    The best lesson from Mom? “The ’shoulds’ will kill you.” Use the word “should” in a sentence, and it instills guilt and obligation, as in “I should call X.” Instead, insert the word “could” where you once used “should,” and the scenery changes bigtime, as in “I could call X.” Mom’s a genius.

  4. Elizabeth Dehart Says:

    Only worry about the things that will impact you life enough that you will remember in 1 year or 10.
    Life is too short to worry about the snall stuff.

  5. Mya Brooks Says:

    Don’t eat yellow snow.

  6. Cheryl Steinmann Says:

    My mother taught us to improve our survival skills…we learned to duck flying objects & keep our distance.

  7. Get the most you can out of your education.

  8. Catalina Khalaj Says:

    I learned to be true to myself always, never to compromise, and at the same time never to feel inferior. To have faith in God and then in my own power to overcome critical situations. Last, but not least, to give affection and good advice.

  9. Michelle S. Says:

    Wow. It is so hard to choose which lesson was the best, but I guess I would have to say it was her philosophy about choices. She always told me we make choices every day but we are rarely aware of them or their effects on others, so we need to remember throughout the day to say to ourselves “I choose X because Y.” For example, I was late for work the other day and as I was driving I saw a woman and her dog waiting to cross the street (there are no crosswalks on this particular street). I almost just kept going, but I remembered my mom’s choice lectures, and I stopped and let them cross. A very small thing, but it made me think of my mom and smile, and it made the woman walking her dog smile, too.

  10. Meredith Peters Says:

    Do unto others as you would have then do unto you

  11. Keep organized, it will make life easier.

  12. I learned that it’s ok not to be perfect

  13. Always LISTEN to hear what people are saying.

  14. Christina N Says:

    When women are mean 90% of the time its because they are jealous

    Never let a man define who you are

  15. Katherine Says:

    You can’t save the world. Worry about your own problems before trying to fix someone else’s.

    Thanks for the contest!

  16. The weather is perfect in Chicago

  17. Margaret Smith Says:

    The best advice I learned from my Mom is to treat others the way that I want to be treated.
    Thanks for this giveaway. This prize looks wonderful. Thanks.

  18. Shanna r Kirk Says:

    My mom taught me several things very early on in my life that have carried me through almost every situation.
    1- Get out of yourself and do something nice for someone else today!
    2- Never be afraid to ask for help.
    3- Do your best, that’s all you can do.
    Pretty much any obstacle I have come up against has been put into perspective by one or more of these famous phrases from my mom.

  19. Don’t sweat the small stuff!

  20. Carol Harrity Says:

    Mom always advised us to not leave home without clean underwear on!

  21. KIM DUBICK Says:

    My mom told us never to smoke (she’s a chainsmoker) and I never have. I also don’t drink, have never been tipsy, and although she never told us not to drink, I realized the danger because she’s an alcoholic.

  22. Never to tan in a tanning bed! She always told me it makes your skin look like leather.

  23. mary boemmel Says:

    Never go to bed with a dirty face!!!!

  24. Victoria Ross Says:

    My mom taught me the meaning of love.

  25. Tracey Byram Says:

    Don’t believe anything you hear and only half of what you see. That advice has served me well for years.

  26. My mom taught me to take pride in the things that make me unique and to be accepting of the individuality of others.

  27. Amanda Perron Says:

    Think before you speak!!!

  28. One of the things my mom taught me is no matter how little you have if you see some one who has less you share. She particularly stressed this out when i was in school with food. If i saw a kid who i knew was hungry I’d share, never mind how hungry i was. I admit the food tasted better. To this day I still can’t enjoy a meal if i see someone who i know is hungry without sharing some of my food.

  29. Don’t sweat the small things.

  30. she taught me that if i am ever having a hard time, home is the place to go

  31. Believe in yourself and others will believe in you as well!

  32. Holly Chernoff Says:

    My Mom always said that I could acheive anything if I tried hard enough.

  33. Shilo Beedy Says:

    My mom taught me to be a honest person

  34. katherine wierzbinski Says:

    Mom told me to use olive oil in everything I cook and I’ll always be healthy….WOW!

  35. Vicki Chrzanowski Says:

    We were never allowed to quit, if we joined something we had to finish.

  36. vicki logan Says:

    My mom taught me patients. I’m still trying to perfect it.

  37. Dan Smith Says:

    Try a lot of things

  38. Susan Smith Says:

    Be honest

  39. to think before speaking and to always be kind….

  40. Marilyn Wons Says:

    Never take life for granted

  41. Judith Hopkins Says:

    The best lesson I learned and the one I use the most is: Never judge anyone until you have walked a mile in their shoes!

  42. Vicki Wurgler Says:

    my mother taught us to be polite and kind and to be responsible for our actions

  43. Tonya Keener Says:

    I need this something awful

  44. These days my mom can not stand on her feet long enough to cook but when she could, she was a marvelous cook and loved to entertain. She has passed that loveo f good food and good company to me. Thanks Mom for the cookies!

  45. Dawn Bates Says:

    She taught me how wonderful it feels to be loved unconditionally.

  46. CHARLES KASSING Says:

    thanks

  47. lorrieanne Says:

    only lie in social situations

  48. Lindsay L Says:

    My Mom taught me that I could do whatever I set my mind to. She even sang “The Work Song” from Cinderella, but fit it to whatever situation I was in. So sometimes I’ll hum….”I can do it, I can do it, I know I can do it because there’s nothing really to it.” AS silly as that sounds it makes me feel better.

  49. My Mom taught me empathy and kindness. She taught me that there was joy in doing small things for others. Also, to read a recipe thoroughly before you begin and to wear clean underwear in case you were in a car accident and rushed to the hospital.

  50. A mother’s job certainly doesn’t end when her child grows up. The job just evolves.

  51. Pamela Kline Says:

    everyone is the same under the different colored skins

  52. Stephanie V Says:

    treat people of all races and religions equally and fairly.

  53. Sandra Brodeur Says:

    No matter how poor you are you should always have a clean home.

  54. Barbara Raeuber Says:

    Never make major decisions at night, because you don’t see clearly in the dark.

  55. That kindness is the best way to show love to another person.

  56. Sue Farrell Says:

    Never depend on others for your basic needs.

  57. Adrienne Gordon Says:

    I learned no matter how hard you think things are, someone has it worse.

  58. Emily Dawley Says:

    My mom always used to say the quote, “To thine own self be true,” and I’ve found a lot of comfort and strength in it. I learned to be confident and proud of my choices and place in this world!

  59. Linda Moeller Says:

    Basic skills. Mom isn’t highly educated but she uses the basics to the MAX!!

  60. Franklin Ogburn Says:

    Lifes not fair.

  61. She told me to cherish every moment with my child, because he will grow up fast.

  62. Christine Says:

    To give to others who need help when you are able.

  63. Rita Sheppard Says:

    If you want something done right, you have to do it yourself.

  64. John Sweeney Says:

    FIGHT THE GOOD FIGHT

  65. Believe in myself

  66. christopher h Says:

    always do your best

  67. SHARON CAWLEY Says:

    “WASTE NOT WANT NOT”—MEANING EAT WHATEVER IS PREPARED FOR YOU AT MEALTIME! YUK!

  68. jane yates Says:

    ALWAYS TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS. I AM THE BABY OF 10

  69. Beverley Justice Says:

    Eat more vegetables.

  70. charline s Says:

    Always Always stop and think before you speak.

  71. Debbie Spence Says:

    If I was going to pick on my younger brothers, I had also better be willing to stand up for them. And them for me.

  72. My mom taught me to take time for myself every day, even if it is just a cup of tea and five minutes to rejuvenate myself.

  73. Betty Nations Says:

    treat others the way that I want to be treated

  74. Valerie C. Says:

    My mother taught me how to be an unselfish mother daily by her example. I really miss her. Today, May 1st, is the anniversary of her passing.

  75. Mom taught me to be gracious.

  76. Angela Petersen Says:

    So many lessons…..the biggest was to make sure regardless of my life situation that I always posessed the ability to take care of myself. She never wanted to see me stuck in a bad relationship just because I did not know how to survive on my own.

  77. my mom taught me that in order to take care of others, I have to make sure I take care of me…best advice now that I am a mother of a special needs child…

  78. You can do anything you set your mind to!

  79. Barbara Moorman Says:

    To be independant and to think for myself. Don’t accept what is said, just because everyone else subscribes to that line of thinking, make your own decisions based on the information you are given, and find on your own.

  80. nicole barr Says:

    my mom always said to me to treat others the way you would want to be treated

  81. Jessica Maurer Says:

    A good education will get you far in life. I am so glad I listened to her & decided to persue my degree in Paralegal Studies. I love what I do.

  82. Shannon Baas Says:

    How to work hard and play hard.

  83. Angelia McDonald Says:

    My mom taught me to be best friends with my daughters.

  84. I learned that life is short, live for today.

  85. Leslie Smith Says:

    My mom taught me to live in the moment for no one knows what tomorrow may bring.

  86. On a scale of 1 to 10 where 10 is death most trying things that happen to you are really not that bad!

  87. Gaye McGill Says:

    “What goes around comes around”, teaching me that if people behave unkindly, they’ll (eventually if not immediately) receive some unkind treatment and also that I should treat people well in order to (usually) get good treatment in return.

  88. never volunteer information!

  89. Theresa Shafer Says:

    People, animals, plants, and the earth are important.

  90. Kathy Mullins Says:

    My mom’s best advice was to attend art school. At first, I was concerned about becoming a “starving artist”. After several years of life in corporate America and trying to pursue careers for which I am not a good fit, I finally followed her wise counsel. I am getting ready to graduate from art school, with honors, and have developed skills that are both creative and practical. I am looking forward to putting my true talents to work.

  91. MARY HOFMANN Says:

    Tolerance and respect.

  92. Jessica Harrison Says:

    Always be positive and life will work itself out.

  93. David Coward Says:

    work hard, play hard

  94. My mom taught me that the whole word is “give and take”, not just your relationships. That the more you give to the world around you the better you feel and you help the world to be a better place for your children. That if you just take then it will be like a relationship and end badly. If you give a helping hand and smile to everyone you meet then the environment around you will be a healthier, happier and better place to live. Your kids learn most by seeing what their parents do. So, teach your kids how to smile and lend a helping hand to strangers in their time of need.

  95. Cindy Megale Says:

    Be respectful of your elders and authority.

  96. I learned to be content no matter what the situation.

  97. Audrey Peterson Says:

    life’s not fair

  98. Corey Nieman Says:

    To exhibit good conservative values, and to be courteous to others!

  99. My mother was so wonderful about being practical and staying in the moment. She grew up in the Depression Era, so as a small child she was taught not to waste and to be careful with her resources. Today, those characteristics are just as important as I have taught my daughter to be green and careful with the precious gifts we’ve been given. Mom always had a smile on her face and loved helping others. She was charitable, organized and down to earth. Everyone loved her! She was my greatest example of kindness and selflessness. I admire her so and she was my best friend. I hope that I have passed on these wonderful qualities to my child. Times really are not that complicated, we only make them seem that way. Keep your chin up, smile at everyone you meet, invest your money, don’t waste and be the best that you can be!

  100. My sister is 10 years older than me. She was married and had her first child by 20. She always remembers what mom told her:
    “Now your worries are just beginning!” We talk about that statement a lot; especially, since we lost mom 8 years ago.
    If I am fortunate enough to win this delightful prize package, I am giving it to my sister on Mother’s Day. Thanks for a great contest. Cindi

  101. John Jayne Says:

    My mother taught me “do as I say not as i do.”

  102. Heather Powers Says:

    My mother taught me, before she died when I was 14, was that when things don’t work out the way I want them to and times get tough, to “pick myself up, dust myself off, and keep going.” She also always corrected my english and grammer, I wish I could thank her for that today!

  103. Joyce Pogue Says:

    Get an education so you can take care of yourself and your children.

  104. Donna Hunt Says:

    My mom taught me alot, but I think the most important thing was to trust in yourself. If you’re not sure what to do, figure out what you think is the best solution and go with that. The worst that can happen is you find out you’re human by making a mistake and learning from it. Thank you for the contest!

  105. CARLA EASTMAN Says:

    My mother taught me to forgive. No matter how bad a family member treats you, they don’t mean it. If they apologize, you should forgive them. =)

  106. Danielle Says:

    From my mother I learned a mothers forgiveness, I never understood how she could foregive us the way she did. I just always found it amazing. Now having my own children I see how.

    mcginnisfamily5(at)gmail(dot)com

  107. Never trust anyone.

  108. darcy bishop Says:

    You can only rely on yourself.

  109. Terra Heck Says:

    My mother taught me to have empathy for others and to be open-minded. She also told me that trust has to be earned.

  110. You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.

  111. Huguette E. Says:

    I learned to treat others as I would want to be treated

  112. Julie L. Says:

    My mom taught me to care for and respect all living things, and to appreciate the things I have and everything around me.

  113. Never tell a lie.

  114. Cynthia C Says:

    Mom always encouraged me to be myself. It’s advice that has served me well.

  115. Kari Follett Says:

    Always stand for what you believe in

  116. cheryl kelly Says:

    oh my goodness…she taught me so many things but I suppose the one I remind myself of frequently is that there is something good in everyone. everyone. even a murderer may be a good son, a good cook, etc…Look for the good in everyone.

  117. Do what you love and the money will follow.

  118. Lisa Overcash Says:

    I learned that material things are not the most important thing in life.

  119. In addition to basic manners (thanks mom!) that I learned, she drilled home a few things:

    1. treat others as you would like to be treated
    2. follow-through on your commitments
    3. family time is always most important

    She is a fantastic mom, to be sure!

  120. JOE CORNELL Says:

    Live in the moment…….AND never forget your past

  121. Michele G Says:

    Give and you shall receive

  122. Katherine Ellis Says:

    Always do your best. Failure is not an option!

  123. Deborah Rosen Says:

    Mom taught me that it’s not always about me, but sometimes it is - and that I’d be a grown up when I knew the difference.

  124. Elizabeth G Says:

    I learned to treat yourself and others with respect.

  125. rebecca snodgrass Says:

    treat others as you want to be treated

  126. Rita Green Says:

    My Mom always told me when you gossip it is like opening up a feather pillow try as you like you can never get all those feathers back once they are out.

  127. Michelle Says:

    My mom taught me to listen more than you speak.

  128. She taught be that being generous is it’s own reward.

  129. hazel hunt Says:

    nice

  130. Vicky Boackle Says:

    always be nice.

  131. Lori Hilts Says:

    My Mom taught me that when you give advice, give it only once. After that, it’s just nagging.

  132. Susan Chester Says:

    My mom had a saying whenever I complained, that I always remember when I am feeling sorry for myself: “I cried when I had no shoes, until I saw a man who had no feet”. I learned not to complain if I didn’t want to hear this.

  133. Emilie S. Says:

    Be nice.

  134. Never offer advice unless it’s asked for.Just listen.

  135. Brandlyn Says:

    My mom always taught me to treat everyone the same.

  136. Lee Glinski Says:

    the golden rule.

  137. Mary Dunigan Says:

    My mom taught me patience. She also taught me that material things in life aren’t as important as my children are.

  138. Always be aware of your thoughts, b/c you eventually get what you think about most.

  139. To be a caregiver-through her example.

  140. always smile

  141. The best lesson that my mom taught me is that things will NEVER go the way they are planned once you have a baby! So true.

  142. It’s very hard to choose just one. But she always told me that often times we cannot change some things (illness, other peoples actions etc) but only our reaction to them and it’s how we react that defines us not the things that h happen to us. Also that we learn somethign new everyday and to be aware of what we can learn from day to day…I miss Mom so much ,but I know she is in a better place and someday I will see her again

  143. Jennifer Barnett Says:

    I learned to treat others as I want to be treated. Simple, but probably the best lesson anyone can take to heart.

  144. No matter how bad a situation or something was, she’d remind me: “And this too shall pass.” Very comforting words when I was upset.

  145. Always treat other people the way you WANT and EXPECT TO BE TREATED!

  146. My mother has taught me not to complain about life’s problems, but to deal with them as best as you can. That means to base decisions and actions on the information you have at the moment and not regret or brood over it.

  147. Ronni Fox Says:

    I learned that even a bad example has value. I learned I don’t have to be cruel to raise a child.

  148. linda alnsford Says:

    She taught me that life is not always fair.

  149. Patricia Hill Says:

    No matter what happens today, there is tomorrow and maybe you can fix it

  150. My Mom taught me that family is everything!

  151. My mom has reminded me “this too shall pass” on days when things seem overwhelming with my kiddos or life. She has also reminded me to cherish the time I have with my children…for they grow up so fast! :)

  152. to have patience in the dreams

  153. Catherine copeland Says:

    my mom taught me I can’t save all the starfish in the sea but if I can save one it’s worth the work.

  154. Monique Rizzo Says:

    My mom taught me to treat others like you want to be treated!

  155. she said never worry about what other people think, just be happy with yourself.

  156. She taught me that everyone, even moms, make mistakes. It is how we learn and grow from them that counts.

  157. Lets see, this is a hard one for me since my mom didn’t raise me. I can’t say that she taught me anything as a child. As I got to know her when I became an adult
    I would have to say that I learned, that the mother and daughter relationship is very hard to maintain after I became an adult, not that I didn’t want it to. Even tho I love her very much, I believe that it is hard for her to feel the closeness that probably would be there if we had shared
    our lives together when I was growing up. I do love my mom very much. Thank you

  158. CATHI RUSHING Says:

    FAMILY COMES FIRST

  159. Treat other as you would want them to treat you. Be kind. ;-) Thanks.

  160. My mom has taught me many things over the years, but the most meaningful is about unconditional love. She has always supported me no matter what, even if she doesn’t agree with me. Its such a gift, and I hope I can share that with my loved ones.

  161. Honesty, loyalty.

  162. Johannah B Says:

    I learned how to cook!

  163. Melanie Lee :) Says:

    The best thing that my Mom taught me was not to be prejudiced against anyone because of their race or religion.
    She has been a foster parent since I was only about 10 years old. She has taken in children of every religion and ethnic background and loved them all equally.
    She said that we may look different on the outside but inside we are exactly the same.
    After fostering over 250 children and raising three of her own, I think she knows a good bit about the subject.
    How different the world would be today if everyone subscribed to this thinking.

  164. Lillian Bates Says:

    stand up straight and always be gracious

  165. Rachel Fox Says:

    The best lesson I’ve learned from my Mama is that only you can make yourself happy. No one is going to loose sleep or care if you’re unhappy, only you are. Make the best of every situation, because only YOU can make it the best! Thanks Mama! I love you!

  166. Nancy McCaig Says:

    Be kind to everyone.

  167. To share everything with your friends, especially the calories!!

  168. Don’t bite off your nose to spite your face.

  169. Lisa Fosses Says:

    My Mom does not discriminate against others no matter their race, color, status, language, etc.

  170. Carolyn Nedrow Says:

    My mother taught me that love means sacrifice!

  171. Virginia B. Says:

    Having a mother that was not the best role model, I would say I learned more of what not to do, from what she did.

  172. My mom always told me…”Just be yourself” With most trying to be something they aren’t, I feel this is lofty advice!

  173. Ashley Henley Says:

    I learned to always try my best

  174. Soha Molina Says:

    Count your blessings!!

  175. Maggie Mannwieler Says:

    My Mom taught me early on that Doctors were not Gods, they cna make mistakes, and that no one knows better than a Mom when a child is in pain. She also taught me not to pull on the skin around my eyes:)

    maggie@mannwieler.com

  176. Everything in moderation!
    Best advice ever.
    Thanks :)

  177. Colleen S. Says:

    “Clean your house before leaving on a trip” - While it isnt the most inspired, I think of it the most now that I travel often.
    Everytime I come home from the road, just exhausted, I walk into my clean house and just sigh. it make me think of mom every single time.

  178. “Don’t do things which I wouldn’t do!”

  179. Sharon C. Says:

    Do your best, that’s all you can do.
    Thanks for the giveaway.

  180. Guilherme Paraiso Says:

    Enter me!

  181. Kathryn Bakken Says:

    Always treat people the way you’d like to be treated.

  182. jan koontz Says:

    just be kind

  183. Sarah Stern Says:

    Do unto others as you would have them do unto you - thanks mom!

  184. Janice J Says:

    To respect my elders! I have taught this to my children as well, it is very good advice.

  185. “When the going gets tough, the tough wear waterproof mascara”

  186. My mother taught me independance.

  187. Jessica Applegate Says:

    how to treat others with respect.

  188. CLifton Wade Says:

    My disabled wife of more than 38 years would just LOVE this. Thanks for all the great contests!

  189. teresa cannon Says:

    Not everything that pops into your head has to come out of you mouth.

  190. This is a difficult question for me as my mother was not a good one — but even in light of that, a mother can teach you what to do by what they do not. In light of that, I learned to be honest and real, I learned to love my children and take time for them. I learned to say I’m sorry when I’m wrong and to make it right. I’ve learned that love can be stronger than any kind of pain!

  191. “If you don’t like someone they way they are, accept or don’t, people don’t change because you want them to”.

  192. Patricia Schraier Says:

    The most valuable lesson I learned from my mom was to be independent enough to not need someone to take care of me.

  193. My mom taught me to be kind to others.

  194. connie s. Says:

    My mom taught me to not parent like her!!!

  195. Sharon Jones Says:

    I learned to be kind and never to judge anyone. She was, and still is the most generous person I know as well…she tought me this lesson, too…to be as generous as you can…with whatever you can give

  196. Jodene Gildea Says:

    How to be a mom!

  197. If I heard it once I heard it a thousand times “Who ever told you life was fair?”, funny I tell that to my daughter all the time now!

  198. My mother taught me to NOT do what she did. She can be very rude to clerks, people waiting on us, etc. I have learned to look them in the eye, smile, and thank them for their help. A smile goes a long way. Especially after you have dealt with MY mom. Probably not the answer you were looking for. But it’s the truth. :)

  199. Tonya Froemel Says:

    My mom taught me how to cook, sadly a skill that many kids don’t learn, but one that everyone should.

  200. Pick and choose your battles carefully

  201. always wear clen underwear. so true.

  202. She always told me that good things come to those who are patient enough to wait for them. Usually she would tell me this after I had been complaining of something not going right in my life, then she would say things always get better with time.

  203. Patricia Bergman Says:

    What a great prize

  204. Lisa Fine Says:

    My mom taught me to always, “mind your manners and be kind”.

  205. Focus on what is important in life, my child-not a perfect, clean house.

  206. JONI CHADWELL Says:

    Don’t count on anything ( like money) until you have it in your hand

  207. Listen with your heart first, your head second

  208. not to be afraid to take chances in life to get ahead and try and try and try again

  209. Trying to defend yourself against gossip is never a good idea. Silence makes you a much better person.

  210. “Never buy (work) shoes that you can’t run across a Manhattan street in.”

  211. kathleen haas Says:

    be nice and ppl will be nice back

  212. Mom taught me that the curse of “I hope when you have kids they’re just like you” actually does come true. She tells me every day I call and ‘whine’ about my day with my 2 girls “They’re Just Like You, I told you”. She’s taught me now to appreciate tolerance and all your mom teaches and does for you as a child into your adult years.

  213. Barbara E Says:

    I was always reminded to treat others how i would wish to be treated - seems to work

  214. Never give up.

  215. nice

  216. Treat others as you wish to be treated

  217. My mom taught me to always be confident.

  218. The most valuable lesson I gleaned from my mom is perseverance. My mom single-handedly raised my sister and me after my father left her. As a naturalized citizen from an Asian country who came to the U.S. on the heels of the Vietnam war, she faced rampant racism and prejudice from the family she had married into. In spite of the language barrier and the tough times, her life effort was to persevere…to work 2 jobs while taking some college classes so we could have food on the table, a roof over our heads, and a better life than she had. Her faith in God kept her strong…and she remained strong for us when everything seemed to be falling apart around us. Because of her fearless tenacity and determination, I knew I could push through any obstacle to achieve my dreams and purpose. I’m a wife to an amazing husband and a mom to the most adorable boy with sparkling eyes…and I attribute all my accomplishments and successes to God, in Whom she raised me to place my faith and to my mom–my lifelong hero and example of persevering womanhood.

  219. My mother taught me that those less fortunate then I am need to be taken care of. And when you do give, whether it is of yourself or monetary, you get it back a hundredfold.

  220. I really have learned not to jump to judgement too quickly as things may not be as they first appear.

  221. Peggy Miller Says:

    Once a cheater…always a cheater!

  222. hahaha change your underwear before you go out as you never know when someone might see them.. (thats important.. thanks mom..LOL)

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  223. Nora Scott-Platt Says:

    Caring about other people and learning to be socially interactive and knowing how to love one another.

  224. Charles Brady Says:

    I always had a problem with being too impulsive and my Mom told me ” If you’re up to your ears in alligators, it’s too late to drain the swamp” It taught me to think about my actions beforehand. I believe this simple and cute piece of advise has impacted my life more than all the others

  225. You can’t live your life with two feet in one shoe. It took a while before I understood that but it makes sense now.

  226. To always be thankful for what I have.

  227. Erin Murphy Says:

    My mother taught me that you should not trust anyone unless they give you a reason to. I totally agree with her!

  228. Rosalie Lavertue Says:

    think young
    always wear a sun screen so you won’t only think young your skin will look young

  229. Live each day as if it were your last.

  230. jeanette malan Says:

    being consistant is the best thing she could have ever taught me

  231. It’s interesting to read all the wonderful comments about what great Mother’s advice some of you had. I wish my experiences with Mom had been better…but although she didn’t teach by example…I learned a most valuable lesson from her…not to lie.

  232. If you can’t say something nice about someone don’t say anything at all.

  233. Don’t sweat the small stuff.

  234. Put one foot in front of the other

  235. Jerry Hubbard Says:

    The hardest part of anything is getting started.

  236. Matthew H Says:

    Always wear clean underwear!

  237. My mother taught me to look all around you for guidance and wisdom, to learn from the world and all of the people in it.

  238. Beverly M Says:

    If you don’t stand for something , you will fall for anything!

  239. Tia Carter Says:

    i hope i win

  240. If you look at the big picture of life - everything is small - and don’t sweat the small things. Work before pleasure, but enjoy doing both.
    Thank you.

  241. Sharold Friedrich Says:

    My mom taught me to enjoy each day and find the good things in life.

  242. everything in moderation

  243. Kathy Scott Says:

    My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer at 35. She taught me that you need to live life today, because you do not know what tomorrow will bring.

  244. From my Mom I learned to treat everyone with respect and to treat everyone the same.

  245. The night of my first concert, my mom told me not to smoke or drink anything someone hands me. 10 years later, it still makes me laugh.

  246. A valuable lesson that I learned from my mom is to have patience!
    Thanks
    palmersf(at)bellsouth(dot)net

  247. Mom taught me to just do it!

  248. Barbara Baker Says:

    The most important thing my mom taught me was to remember others for the good in them and try your hardest to forget the bad. Things happen that people can’t predict, expect or intend, but if you see the lighter side of everyone…there is hope for everyone.