Lessons From Mom
Moms really are what make the world go round. They give us life, love us, and send us out into the world, always ready to be there for us at a moment’s notice. A mother’s job certainly doesn’t end when her child grows up. The job just evolves.
I spent my early childhood trying to emulate my mom and then as a teenager, I was always trying to escape her. Obviously during those tumultuous teenage years, I knew everything and didn’t need to listen to the archaic advice from my mother. Surely my friends were better judges of life than my mom. (I laugh at the thought now) These days, I can look back fondly at the lessons she taught me, spoken and unspoken, when she thought I wasn’t even paying attention.
I can almost hear the unified sigh from all of us who wish we’d given our mother’s more credit for the advice they were trying to freely give. So, what is the best lesson your mom taught you? Post a comment below and share the best advice or most valuable lesson that you learned from your mom and you’ll be entered in GiftTree’s Mother’s Day contest. The Gift Exchange contributors will choose our favorite post and the winner will receive the Organic Spa Basket, for you or for your mom.
Deadline to Enter: Midnight (PST) Wednesday, May 7th. Not the winner this time? GiftTree has many Mother’s Day gifts that are perfect for mom.
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May 1st, 2008 at 10:19 am
I learned to be more tolerant of others.
May 1st, 2008 at 10:22 am
My mom taught me to put others first.
May 1st, 2008 at 10:23 am
The best lesson from Mom? “The ’shoulds’ will kill you.” Use the word “should” in a sentence, and it instills guilt and obligation, as in “I should call X.” Instead, insert the word “could” where you once used “should,” and the scenery changes bigtime, as in “I could call X.” Mom’s a genius.
May 1st, 2008 at 10:26 am
Only worry about the things that will impact you life enough that you will remember in 1 year or 10.
Life is too short to worry about the snall stuff.
May 1st, 2008 at 10:30 am
Don’t eat yellow snow.
May 1st, 2008 at 10:31 am
My mother taught us to improve our survival skills…we learned to duck flying objects & keep our distance.
May 1st, 2008 at 10:38 am
Get the most you can out of your education.
May 1st, 2008 at 10:41 am
I learned to be true to myself always, never to compromise, and at the same time never to feel inferior. To have faith in God and then in my own power to overcome critical situations. Last, but not least, to give affection and good advice.
May 1st, 2008 at 10:50 am
Wow. It is so hard to choose which lesson was the best, but I guess I would have to say it was her philosophy about choices. She always told me we make choices every day but we are rarely aware of them or their effects on others, so we need to remember throughout the day to say to ourselves “I choose X because Y.” For example, I was late for work the other day and as I was driving I saw a woman and her dog waiting to cross the street (there are no crosswalks on this particular street). I almost just kept going, but I remembered my mom’s choice lectures, and I stopped and let them cross. A very small thing, but it made me think of my mom and smile, and it made the woman walking her dog smile, too.
May 1st, 2008 at 10:55 am
Do unto others as you would have then do unto you
May 1st, 2008 at 10:57 am
Keep organized, it will make life easier.
May 1st, 2008 at 10:57 am
I learned that it’s ok not to be perfect
May 1st, 2008 at 11:01 am
Always LISTEN to hear what people are saying.
May 1st, 2008 at 11:02 am
When women are mean 90% of the time its because they are jealous
Never let a man define who you are
May 1st, 2008 at 11:04 am
You can’t save the world. Worry about your own problems before trying to fix someone else’s.
Thanks for the contest!
May 1st, 2008 at 11:04 am
The weather is perfect in Chicago
May 1st, 2008 at 11:06 am
The best advice I learned from my Mom is to treat others the way that I want to be treated.
Thanks for this giveaway. This prize looks wonderful. Thanks.
May 1st, 2008 at 11:09 am
My mom taught me several things very early on in my life that have carried me through almost every situation.
1- Get out of yourself and do something nice for someone else today!
2- Never be afraid to ask for help.
3- Do your best, that’s all you can do.
Pretty much any obstacle I have come up against has been put into perspective by one or more of these famous phrases from my mom.
May 1st, 2008 at 11:11 am
Don’t sweat the small stuff!
May 1st, 2008 at 11:16 am
Mom always advised us to not leave home without clean underwear on!
May 1st, 2008 at 11:21 am
My mom told us never to smoke (she’s a chainsmoker) and I never have. I also don’t drink, have never been tipsy, and although she never told us not to drink, I realized the danger because she’s an alcoholic.
May 1st, 2008 at 11:22 am
Never to tan in a tanning bed! She always told me it makes your skin look like leather.
May 1st, 2008 at 11:29 am
Never go to bed with a dirty face!!!!
May 1st, 2008 at 11:33 am
My mom taught me the meaning of love.
May 1st, 2008 at 11:34 am
Don’t believe anything you hear and only half of what you see. That advice has served me well for years.
May 1st, 2008 at 11:48 am
My mom taught me to take pride in the things that make me unique and to be accepting of the individuality of others.
May 1st, 2008 at 11:49 am
Think before you speak!!!
May 1st, 2008 at 11:54 am
One of the things my mom taught me is no matter how little you have if you see some one who has less you share. She particularly stressed this out when i was in school with food. If i saw a kid who i knew was hungry I’d share, never mind how hungry i was. I admit the food tasted better. To this day I still can’t enjoy a meal if i see someone who i know is hungry without sharing some of my food.
May 1st, 2008 at 11:54 am
Don’t sweat the small things.
May 1st, 2008 at 11:56 am
she taught me that if i am ever having a hard time, home is the place to go
May 1st, 2008 at 11:57 am
Believe in yourself and others will believe in you as well!
May 1st, 2008 at 12:01 pm
My Mom always said that I could acheive anything if I tried hard enough.
May 1st, 2008 at 12:04 pm
My mom taught me to be a honest person
May 1st, 2008 at 12:10 pm
Mom told me to use olive oil in everything I cook and I’ll always be healthy….WOW!
May 1st, 2008 at 12:13 pm
We were never allowed to quit, if we joined something we had to finish.
May 1st, 2008 at 12:21 pm
My mom taught me patients. I’m still trying to perfect it.
May 1st, 2008 at 12:39 pm
Try a lot of things
May 1st, 2008 at 12:39 pm
Be honest
May 1st, 2008 at 12:50 pm
to think before speaking and to always be kind….
May 1st, 2008 at 12:54 pm
Never take life for granted
May 1st, 2008 at 12:54 pm
The best lesson I learned and the one I use the most is: Never judge anyone until you have walked a mile in their shoes!
May 1st, 2008 at 12:55 pm
my mother taught us to be polite and kind and to be responsible for our actions
May 1st, 2008 at 1:11 pm
I need this something awful
May 1st, 2008 at 1:17 pm
These days my mom can not stand on her feet long enough to cook but when she could, she was a marvelous cook and loved to entertain. She has passed that loveo f good food and good company to me. Thanks Mom for the cookies!
May 1st, 2008 at 1:19 pm
She taught me how wonderful it feels to be loved unconditionally.
May 1st, 2008 at 1:24 pm
thanks
May 1st, 2008 at 1:46 pm
only lie in social situations
May 1st, 2008 at 1:51 pm
My Mom taught me that I could do whatever I set my mind to. She even sang “The Work Song” from Cinderella, but fit it to whatever situation I was in. So sometimes I’ll hum….”I can do it, I can do it, I know I can do it because there’s nothing really to it.” AS silly as that sounds it makes me feel better.
May 1st, 2008 at 1:51 pm
My Mom taught me empathy and kindness. She taught me that there was joy in doing small things for others. Also, to read a recipe thoroughly before you begin and to wear clean underwear in case you were in a car accident and rushed to the hospital.
May 1st, 2008 at 2:15 pm
A mother’s job certainly doesn’t end when her child grows up. The job just evolves.
May 1st, 2008 at 2:25 pm
everyone is the same under the different colored skins
May 1st, 2008 at 2:31 pm
treat people of all races and religions equally and fairly.
May 1st, 2008 at 2:37 pm
No matter how poor you are you should always have a clean home.
May 1st, 2008 at 2:52 pm
Never make major decisions at night, because you don’t see clearly in the dark.
May 1st, 2008 at 2:54 pm
That kindness is the best way to show love to another person.
May 1st, 2008 at 3:03 pm
Never depend on others for your basic needs.
May 1st, 2008 at 3:06 pm
I learned no matter how hard you think things are, someone has it worse.
May 1st, 2008 at 3:24 pm
My mom always used to say the quote, “To thine own self be true,” and I’ve found a lot of comfort and strength in it. I learned to be confident and proud of my choices and place in this world!
May 1st, 2008 at 3:30 pm
Basic skills. Mom isn’t highly educated but she uses the basics to the MAX!!
May 1st, 2008 at 3:33 pm
Lifes not fair.
May 1st, 2008 at 3:36 pm
She told me to cherish every moment with my child, because he will grow up fast.
May 1st, 2008 at 3:45 pm
To give to others who need help when you are able.
May 1st, 2008 at 3:50 pm
If you want something done right, you have to do it yourself.
May 1st, 2008 at 4:05 pm
FIGHT THE GOOD FIGHT
May 1st, 2008 at 4:08 pm
Believe in myself
May 1st, 2008 at 4:27 pm
always do your best
May 1st, 2008 at 4:38 pm
“WASTE NOT WANT NOT”—MEANING EAT WHATEVER IS PREPARED FOR YOU AT MEALTIME! YUK!
May 1st, 2008 at 4:42 pm
ALWAYS TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS. I AM THE BABY OF 10
May 1st, 2008 at 4:43 pm
Eat more vegetables.
May 1st, 2008 at 4:43 pm
Always Always stop and think before you speak.
May 1st, 2008 at 4:47 pm
If I was going to pick on my younger brothers, I had also better be willing to stand up for them. And them for me.
May 1st, 2008 at 4:50 pm
My mom taught me to take time for myself every day, even if it is just a cup of tea and five minutes to rejuvenate myself.
May 1st, 2008 at 4:56 pm
treat others the way that I want to be treated
May 1st, 2008 at 4:56 pm
My mother taught me how to be an unselfish mother daily by her example. I really miss her. Today, May 1st, is the anniversary of her passing.
May 1st, 2008 at 5:04 pm
Mom taught me to be gracious.
May 1st, 2008 at 5:18 pm
So many lessons…..the biggest was to make sure regardless of my life situation that I always posessed the ability to take care of myself. She never wanted to see me stuck in a bad relationship just because I did not know how to survive on my own.
May 1st, 2008 at 5:20 pm
my mom taught me that in order to take care of others, I have to make sure I take care of me…best advice now that I am a mother of a special needs child…
May 1st, 2008 at 5:27 pm
You can do anything you set your mind to!
May 1st, 2008 at 5:31 pm
To be independant and to think for myself. Don’t accept what is said, just because everyone else subscribes to that line of thinking, make your own decisions based on the information you are given, and find on your own.
May 1st, 2008 at 5:35 pm
my mom always said to me to treat others the way you would want to be treated
May 1st, 2008 at 5:53 pm
A good education will get you far in life. I am so glad I listened to her & decided to persue my degree in Paralegal Studies. I love what I do.
May 1st, 2008 at 5:56 pm
How to work hard and play hard.
May 1st, 2008 at 6:09 pm
My mom taught me to be best friends with my daughters.
May 1st, 2008 at 6:11 pm
I learned that life is short, live for today.
May 1st, 2008 at 6:11 pm
My mom taught me to live in the moment for no one knows what tomorrow may bring.
May 1st, 2008 at 6:22 pm
On a scale of 1 to 10 where 10 is death most trying things that happen to you are really not that bad!
May 1st, 2008 at 6:34 pm
“What goes around comes around”, teaching me that if people behave unkindly, they’ll (eventually if not immediately) receive some unkind treatment and also that I should treat people well in order to (usually) get good treatment in return.
May 1st, 2008 at 6:38 pm
never volunteer information!
May 1st, 2008 at 6:43 pm
People, animals, plants, and the earth are important.
May 1st, 2008 at 6:44 pm
My mom’s best advice was to attend art school. At first, I was concerned about becoming a “starving artist”. After several years of life in corporate America and trying to pursue careers for which I am not a good fit, I finally followed her wise counsel. I am getting ready to graduate from art school, with honors, and have developed skills that are both creative and practical. I am looking forward to putting my true talents to work.
May 1st, 2008 at 6:47 pm
Tolerance and respect.
May 1st, 2008 at 6:56 pm
Always be positive and life will work itself out.
May 1st, 2008 at 7:02 pm
work hard, play hard
May 1st, 2008 at 7:19 pm
My mom taught me that the whole word is “give and take”, not just your relationships. That the more you give to the world around you the better you feel and you help the world to be a better place for your children. That if you just take then it will be like a relationship and end badly. If you give a helping hand and smile to everyone you meet then the environment around you will be a healthier, happier and better place to live. Your kids learn most by seeing what their parents do. So, teach your kids how to smile and lend a helping hand to strangers in their time of need.
May 1st, 2008 at 7:22 pm
Be respectful of your elders and authority.
May 1st, 2008 at 7:51 pm
I learned to be content no matter what the situation.
May 1st, 2008 at 8:16 pm
life’s not fair
May 1st, 2008 at 8:28 pm
To exhibit good conservative values, and to be courteous to others!
May 1st, 2008 at 8:30 pm
My mother was so wonderful about being practical and staying in the moment. She grew up in the Depression Era, so as a small child she was taught not to waste and to be careful with her resources. Today, those characteristics are just as important as I have taught my daughter to be green and careful with the precious gifts we’ve been given. Mom always had a smile on her face and loved helping others. She was charitable, organized and down to earth. Everyone loved her! She was my greatest example of kindness and selflessness. I admire her so and she was my best friend. I hope that I have passed on these wonderful qualities to my child. Times really are not that complicated, we only make them seem that way. Keep your chin up, smile at everyone you meet, invest your money, don’t waste and be the best that you can be!
May 1st, 2008 at 9:09 pm
My sister is 10 years older than me. She was married and had her first child by 20. She always remembers what mom told her:
“Now your worries are just beginning!” We talk about that statement a lot; especially, since we lost mom 8 years ago.
If I am fortunate enough to win this delightful prize package, I am giving it to my sister on Mother’s Day. Thanks for a great contest. Cindi
May 1st, 2008 at 9:10 pm
My mother taught me “do as I say not as i do.”
May 1st, 2008 at 9:11 pm
My mother taught me, before she died when I was 14, was that when things don’t work out the way I want them to and times get tough, to “pick myself up, dust myself off, and keep going.” She also always corrected my english and grammer, I wish I could thank her for that today!
May 1st, 2008 at 9:20 pm
Get an education so you can take care of yourself and your children.
May 1st, 2008 at 9:33 pm
My mom taught me alot, but I think the most important thing was to trust in yourself. If you’re not sure what to do, figure out what you think is the best solution and go with that. The worst that can happen is you find out you’re human by making a mistake and learning from it. Thank you for the contest!
May 1st, 2008 at 9:35 pm
My mother taught me to forgive. No matter how bad a family member treats you, they don’t mean it. If they apologize, you should forgive them. =)
May 1st, 2008 at 9:42 pm
From my mother I learned a mothers forgiveness, I never understood how she could foregive us the way she did. I just always found it amazing. Now having my own children I see how.
mcginnisfamily5(at)gmail(dot)com
May 1st, 2008 at 10:03 pm
Never trust anyone.
May 1st, 2008 at 10:05 pm
You can only rely on yourself.
May 2nd, 2008 at 12:04 am
My mother taught me to have empathy for others and to be open-minded. She also told me that trust has to be earned.
May 2nd, 2008 at 12:12 am
You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.
May 2nd, 2008 at 1:19 am
I learned to treat others as I would want to be treated
May 2nd, 2008 at 1:31 am
My mom taught me to care for and respect all living things, and to appreciate the things I have and everything around me.
May 2nd, 2008 at 1:43 am
Never tell a lie.
May 2nd, 2008 at 2:22 am
Mom always encouraged me to be myself. It’s advice that has served me well.
May 2nd, 2008 at 2:36 am
Always stand for what you believe in
May 2nd, 2008 at 3:12 am
oh my goodness…she taught me so many things but I suppose the one I remind myself of frequently is that there is something good in everyone. everyone. even a murderer may be a good son, a good cook, etc…Look for the good in everyone.
May 2nd, 2008 at 3:42 am
Do what you love and the money will follow.
May 2nd, 2008 at 4:20 am
I learned that material things are not the most important thing in life.
May 2nd, 2008 at 4:31 am
In addition to basic manners (thanks mom!) that I learned, she drilled home a few things:
1. treat others as you would like to be treated
2. follow-through on your commitments
3. family time is always most important
She is a fantastic mom, to be sure!
May 2nd, 2008 at 4:31 am
Live in the moment…….AND never forget your past
May 2nd, 2008 at 4:44 am
Give and you shall receive
May 2nd, 2008 at 4:46 am
Always do your best. Failure is not an option!
May 2nd, 2008 at 4:49 am
Mom taught me that it’s not always about me, but sometimes it is - and that I’d be a grown up when I knew the difference.
May 2nd, 2008 at 4:58 am
I learned to treat yourself and others with respect.
May 2nd, 2008 at 5:12 am
treat others as you want to be treated
May 2nd, 2008 at 5:16 am
My Mom always told me when you gossip it is like opening up a feather pillow try as you like you can never get all those feathers back once they are out.
May 2nd, 2008 at 5:22 am
My mom taught me to listen more than you speak.
May 2nd, 2008 at 5:32 am
She taught be that being generous is it’s own reward.
May 2nd, 2008 at 5:36 am
nice
May 2nd, 2008 at 5:48 am
always be nice.
May 2nd, 2008 at 5:55 am
My Mom taught me that when you give advice, give it only once. After that, it’s just nagging.
May 2nd, 2008 at 6:06 am
My mom had a saying whenever I complained, that I always remember when I am feeling sorry for myself: “I cried when I had no shoes, until I saw a man who had no feet”. I learned not to complain if I didn’t want to hear this.
May 2nd, 2008 at 6:25 am
Be nice.
May 2nd, 2008 at 6:34 am
Never offer advice unless it’s asked for.Just listen.
May 2nd, 2008 at 6:36 am
My mom always taught me to treat everyone the same.
May 2nd, 2008 at 6:37 am
the golden rule.
May 2nd, 2008 at 6:41 am
My mom taught me patience. She also taught me that material things in life aren’t as important as my children are.
May 2nd, 2008 at 6:43 am
Always be aware of your thoughts, b/c you eventually get what you think about most.
May 2nd, 2008 at 7:00 am
To be a caregiver-through her example.
May 2nd, 2008 at 7:11 am
always smile
May 2nd, 2008 at 7:22 am
The best lesson that my mom taught me is that things will NEVER go the way they are planned once you have a baby! So true.
May 2nd, 2008 at 7:25 am
It’s very hard to choose just one. But she always told me that often times we cannot change some things (illness, other peoples actions etc) but only our reaction to them and it’s how we react that defines us not the things that h happen to us. Also that we learn somethign new everyday and to be aware of what we can learn from day to day…I miss Mom so much ,but I know she is in a better place and someday I will see her again
May 2nd, 2008 at 7:33 am
I learned to treat others as I want to be treated. Simple, but probably the best lesson anyone can take to heart.
May 2nd, 2008 at 8:07 am
No matter how bad a situation or something was, she’d remind me: “And this too shall pass.” Very comforting words when I was upset.
May 2nd, 2008 at 8:19 am
Always treat other people the way you WANT and EXPECT TO BE TREATED!
May 2nd, 2008 at 8:20 am
My mother has taught me not to complain about life’s problems, but to deal with them as best as you can. That means to base decisions and actions on the information you have at the moment and not regret or brood over it.
May 2nd, 2008 at 8:30 am
I learned that even a bad example has value. I learned I don’t have to be cruel to raise a child.
May 2nd, 2008 at 8:30 am
She taught me that life is not always fair.
May 2nd, 2008 at 8:35 am
No matter what happens today, there is tomorrow and maybe you can fix it
May 2nd, 2008 at 8:41 am
My Mom taught me that family is everything!
May 2nd, 2008 at 8:43 am
My mom has reminded me “this too shall pass” on days when things seem overwhelming with my kiddos or life. She has also reminded me to cherish the time I have with my children…for they grow up so fast!
May 2nd, 2008 at 8:44 am
to have patience in the dreams
May 2nd, 2008 at 8:49 am
my mom taught me I can’t save all the starfish in the sea but if I can save one it’s worth the work.
May 2nd, 2008 at 8:52 am
My mom taught me to treat others like you want to be treated!
May 2nd, 2008 at 9:04 am
she said never worry about what other people think, just be happy with yourself.
May 2nd, 2008 at 9:05 am
She taught me that everyone, even moms, make mistakes. It is how we learn and grow from them that counts.
May 2nd, 2008 at 9:29 am
Lets see, this is a hard one for me since my mom didn’t raise me. I can’t say that she taught me anything as a child. As I got to know her when I became an adult
I would have to say that I learned, that the mother and daughter relationship is very hard to maintain after I became an adult, not that I didn’t want it to. Even tho I love her very much, I believe that it is hard for her to feel the closeness that probably would be there if we had shared
our lives together when I was growing up. I do love my mom very much. Thank you
May 2nd, 2008 at 9:55 am
FAMILY COMES FIRST
May 2nd, 2008 at 11:09 am
Treat other as you would want them to treat you. Be kind.
Thanks.
May 2nd, 2008 at 11:25 am
My mom has taught me many things over the years, but the most meaningful is about unconditional love. She has always supported me no matter what, even if she doesn’t agree with me. Its such a gift, and I hope I can share that with my loved ones.
May 2nd, 2008 at 11:34 am
Honesty, loyalty.
May 2nd, 2008 at 11:38 am
I learned how to cook!
May 2nd, 2008 at 11:41 am
The best thing that my Mom taught me was not to be prejudiced against anyone because of their race or religion.
She has been a foster parent since I was only about 10 years old. She has taken in children of every religion and ethnic background and loved them all equally.
She said that we may look different on the outside but inside we are exactly the same.
After fostering over 250 children and raising three of her own, I think she knows a good bit about the subject.
How different the world would be today if everyone subscribed to this thinking.
May 2nd, 2008 at 11:45 am
stand up straight and always be gracious
May 2nd, 2008 at 11:50 am
The best lesson I’ve learned from my Mama is that only you can make yourself happy. No one is going to loose sleep or care if you’re unhappy, only you are. Make the best of every situation, because only YOU can make it the best! Thanks Mama! I love you!
May 2nd, 2008 at 12:26 pm
Be kind to everyone.
May 2nd, 2008 at 12:30 pm
To share everything with your friends, especially the calories!!
May 2nd, 2008 at 12:31 pm
Don’t bite off your nose to spite your face.
May 2nd, 2008 at 12:35 pm
My Mom does not discriminate against others no matter their race, color, status, language, etc.
May 2nd, 2008 at 1:11 pm
My mother taught me that love means sacrifice!
May 2nd, 2008 at 1:11 pm
Having a mother that was not the best role model, I would say I learned more of what not to do, from what she did.
May 2nd, 2008 at 1:21 pm
My mom always told me…”Just be yourself” With most trying to be something they aren’t, I feel this is lofty advice!
May 2nd, 2008 at 1:45 pm
I learned to always try my best
May 2nd, 2008 at 2:23 pm
Count your blessings!!
May 2nd, 2008 at 2:44 pm
My Mom taught me early on that Doctors were not Gods, they cna make mistakes, and that no one knows better than a Mom when a child is in pain. She also taught me not to pull on the skin around my eyes:)
maggie@mannwieler.com
May 2nd, 2008 at 3:06 pm
Everything in moderation!
Best advice ever.
Thanks
May 2nd, 2008 at 3:07 pm
“Clean your house before leaving on a trip” - While it isnt the most inspired, I think of it the most now that I travel often.
Everytime I come home from the road, just exhausted, I walk into my clean house and just sigh. it make me think of mom every single time.
May 2nd, 2008 at 3:18 pm
“Don’t do things which I wouldn’t do!”
May 2nd, 2008 at 3:33 pm
Do your best, that’s all you can do.
Thanks for the giveaway.
May 2nd, 2008 at 4:40 pm
Enter me!
May 2nd, 2008 at 4:52 pm
Always treat people the way you’d like to be treated.
May 2nd, 2008 at 5:24 pm
just be kind
May 2nd, 2008 at 6:04 pm
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you - thanks mom!
May 2nd, 2008 at 6:24 pm
To respect my elders! I have taught this to my children as well, it is very good advice.
May 2nd, 2008 at 6:31 pm
“When the going gets tough, the tough wear waterproof mascara”
May 2nd, 2008 at 6:57 pm
My mother taught me independance.
May 2nd, 2008 at 7:04 pm
how to treat others with respect.
May 2nd, 2008 at 7:26 pm
My disabled wife of more than 38 years would just LOVE this. Thanks for all the great contests!
May 2nd, 2008 at 7:52 pm
Not everything that pops into your head has to come out of you mouth.
May 2nd, 2008 at 7:53 pm
This is a difficult question for me as my mother was not a good one — but even in light of that, a mother can teach you what to do by what they do not. In light of that, I learned to be honest and real, I learned to love my children and take time for them. I learned to say I’m sorry when I’m wrong and to make it right. I’ve learned that love can be stronger than any kind of pain!
May 2nd, 2008 at 8:26 pm
“If you don’t like someone they way they are, accept or don’t, people don’t change because you want them to”.
May 2nd, 2008 at 8:34 pm
The most valuable lesson I learned from my mom was to be independent enough to not need someone to take care of me.
May 2nd, 2008 at 9:41 pm
My mom taught me to be kind to others.
May 2nd, 2008 at 11:13 pm
My mom taught me to not parent like her!!!
May 3rd, 2008 at 6:39 am
I learned to be kind and never to judge anyone. She was, and still is the most generous person I know as well…she tought me this lesson, too…to be as generous as you can…with whatever you can give
May 3rd, 2008 at 7:33 am
How to be a mom!
May 3rd, 2008 at 7:37 am
If I heard it once I heard it a thousand times “Who ever told you life was fair?”, funny I tell that to my daughter all the time now!
May 3rd, 2008 at 8:00 am
My mother taught me to NOT do what she did. She can be very rude to clerks, people waiting on us, etc. I have learned to look them in the eye, smile, and thank them for their help. A smile goes a long way. Especially after you have dealt with MY mom. Probably not the answer you were looking for. But it’s the truth.
May 3rd, 2008 at 8:23 am
My mom taught me how to cook, sadly a skill that many kids don’t learn, but one that everyone should.
May 3rd, 2008 at 9:17 am
Pick and choose your battles carefully
May 3rd, 2008 at 9:57 am
always wear clen underwear. so true.
May 3rd, 2008 at 10:09 am
She always told me that good things come to those who are patient enough to wait for them. Usually she would tell me this after I had been complaining of something not going right in my life, then she would say things always get better with time.
May 3rd, 2008 at 10:32 am
What a great prize
May 3rd, 2008 at 10:48 am
My mom taught me to always, “mind your manners and be kind”.
May 3rd, 2008 at 12:22 pm
Focus on what is important in life, my child-not a perfect, clean house.
May 3rd, 2008 at 12:36 pm
Don’t count on anything ( like money) until you have it in your hand
May 3rd, 2008 at 12:47 pm
Listen with your heart first, your head second
May 3rd, 2008 at 1:39 pm
not to be afraid to take chances in life to get ahead and try and try and try again
May 3rd, 2008 at 2:58 pm
Trying to defend yourself against gossip is never a good idea. Silence makes you a much better person.
May 3rd, 2008 at 3:04 pm
“Never buy (work) shoes that you can’t run across a Manhattan street in.”
May 3rd, 2008 at 3:53 pm
be nice and ppl will be nice back
May 3rd, 2008 at 5:30 pm
Mom taught me that the curse of “I hope when you have kids they’re just like you” actually does come true. She tells me every day I call and ‘whine’ about my day with my 2 girls “They’re Just Like You, I told you”. She’s taught me now to appreciate tolerance and all your mom teaches and does for you as a child into your adult years.
May 3rd, 2008 at 5:33 pm
I was always reminded to treat others how i would wish to be treated - seems to work
May 3rd, 2008 at 5:53 pm
Never give up.
May 3rd, 2008 at 5:56 pm
nice
May 3rd, 2008 at 6:11 pm
Treat others as you wish to be treated
May 3rd, 2008 at 6:25 pm
My mom taught me to always be confident.
May 3rd, 2008 at 6:41 pm
The most valuable lesson I gleaned from my mom is perseverance. My mom single-handedly raised my sister and me after my father left her. As a naturalized citizen from an Asian country who came to the U.S. on the heels of the Vietnam war, she faced rampant racism and prejudice from the family she had married into. In spite of the language barrier and the tough times, her life effort was to persevere…to work 2 jobs while taking some college classes so we could have food on the table, a roof over our heads, and a better life than she had. Her faith in God kept her strong…and she remained strong for us when everything seemed to be falling apart around us. Because of her fearless tenacity and determination, I knew I could push through any obstacle to achieve my dreams and purpose. I’m a wife to an amazing husband and a mom to the most adorable boy with sparkling eyes…and I attribute all my accomplishments and successes to God, in Whom she raised me to place my faith and to my mom–my lifelong hero and example of persevering womanhood.
May 3rd, 2008 at 8:17 pm
My mother taught me that those less fortunate then I am need to be taken care of. And when you do give, whether it is of yourself or monetary, you get it back a hundredfold.
May 3rd, 2008 at 8:22 pm
I really have learned not to jump to judgement too quickly as things may not be as they first appear.
May 3rd, 2008 at 8:23 pm
Once a cheater…always a cheater!
May 3rd, 2008 at 9:43 pm
hahaha change your underwear before you go out as you never know when someone might see them.. (thats important.. thanks mom..LOL)
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May 4th, 2008 at 12:56 am
Caring about other people and learning to be socially interactive and knowing how to love one another.
May 4th, 2008 at 2:05 am
I always had a problem with being too impulsive and my Mom told me ” If you’re up to your ears in alligators, it’s too late to drain the swamp” It taught me to think about my actions beforehand. I believe this simple and cute piece of advise has impacted my life more than all the others
May 4th, 2008 at 5:09 am
You can’t live your life with two feet in one shoe. It took a while before I understood that but it makes sense now.
May 4th, 2008 at 5:50 am
To always be thankful for what I have.
May 4th, 2008 at 6:28 am
My mother taught me that you should not trust anyone unless they give you a reason to. I totally agree with her!
May 4th, 2008 at 8:22 am
think young
always wear a sun screen so you won’t only think young your skin will look young
May 4th, 2008 at 9:49 am
Live each day as if it were your last.
May 4th, 2008 at 10:41 am
being consistant is the best thing she could have ever taught me
May 4th, 2008 at 10:58 am
It’s interesting to read all the wonderful comments about what great Mother’s advice some of you had. I wish my experiences with Mom had been better…but although she didn’t teach by example…I learned a most valuable lesson from her…not to lie.
May 4th, 2008 at 12:39 pm
If you can’t say something nice about someone don’t say anything at all.
May 4th, 2008 at 1:32 pm
Don’t sweat the small stuff.
May 4th, 2008 at 1:33 pm
Put one foot in front of the other
May 4th, 2008 at 1:34 pm
The hardest part of anything is getting started.
May 4th, 2008 at 1:35 pm
Always wear clean underwear!
May 4th, 2008 at 1:47 pm
My mother taught me to look all around you for guidance and wisdom, to learn from the world and all of the people in it.
May 4th, 2008 at 1:59 pm
If you don’t stand for something , you will fall for anything!
May 4th, 2008 at 2:34 pm
i hope i win
May 4th, 2008 at 2:39 pm
If you look at the big picture of life - everything is small - and don’t sweat the small things. Work before pleasure, but enjoy doing both.
Thank you.
May 4th, 2008 at 3:18 pm
My mom taught me to enjoy each day and find the good things in life.
May 4th, 2008 at 3:53 pm
everything in moderation
May 4th, 2008 at 3:54 pm
My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer at 35. She taught me that you need to live life today, because you do not know what tomorrow will bring.
May 4th, 2008 at 4:31 pm
From my Mom I learned to treat everyone with respect and to treat everyone the same.
May 4th, 2008 at 4:39 pm
The night of my first concert, my mom told me not to smoke or drink anything someone hands me. 10 years later, it still makes me laugh.
May 4th, 2008 at 5:43 pm
A valuable lesson that I learned from my mom is to have patience!
Thanks
palmersf(at)bellsouth(dot)net
May 4th, 2008 at 5:51 pm
Mom taught me to just do it!
May 4th, 2008 at 6:17 pm
The most important thing my mom taught me was to remember others for the good in them and try your hardest to forget the bad. Things happen that people can’t predict, expect or intend, but if you see the lighter side of everyone…there is hope for everyone.